Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Fat Babies
Spiritually, we have the same thing. There are many people who consume and consume and consume great Bible teaching, have thousands of hours of classes and discussions. They are just full fat babies. They often time bounce around from church to church and graze off all the good buffets. After they get comfortable at a place they then want to start telling all the other people how they can grow and become like them. If you don't do what they do, then you will NOT be growing in your faith. They love religion and are good at it. But when it comes to living what their reading and doing it, well that's a different story. They want to tell others, but then don't want to do it themselves. They'll be quick to point out your flaws as your serving while their sitting.
This week our challenge has been to get off the bench and follow God. To be open and willing to do whatever He ask us to do regardless of maybe how unique or different the ask is. Today's reading we see Abram being asked to kill animals and then he hears about God's promise to them. (Genesis 15:12-21) His descendants will be able to get to that awesome place, but they will have to go through 400 years of slavery. One question that challenged me was, would I be willing to follow God if I knew that it would take that long for it to happen. Don't know if I would have that type of faith. I want it here and now. What about you? Could you continue to follow God if you knew that you would never get to experience his promise? I don't know. WOW!
Philip Thurman
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Al Gore Is My Hero!
A few weeks ago my parents came and told me that they wanted to do something special for our family this Christmas. They want to give us a trip to Bangladesh and other Asian cities. So I made the call to a travel agent that I was instructed to call. After some research on the journey I had laid out, it came to be way too much money. So I made the call to my parents to inform them that the trip was way out of budget. I was honestly disappointed. I really wanted to be able to take my family to the world I grew up in.
After thinking and doing some discussing I decided to do some looking. Here's where Al Gore comes in. I got on the world wide web that he discovered. Man, I found some incredible deals that seemed unreal, so I did some research and they were all legit, but had to be purchased via the internet in order to get the deal. So get this. I have booked everything online. I booked all domestic and international plane tickets, hotel rooms in Los Angeles and Bangkok, Thailand. WOW! Thanks Al Gore. Without your invention, we would be paying high prices and may not be able to spend Christmas in Bangladesh.
Philip Thurman
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Less Is More
A few years ago I came across a thought that has challenged me and caused me to think about my life. I have a teenager in my life and another soon to be. How can I influnece them and help them be all GOd desires. LESS IS MORE. Our church has chosen as well to make certain sacrifices in order to help families. Part of it was out of need, but part of it was intentional. Instead of planning activities and events all the time, we chose less is more. We want to encourage people to be in small group, hanging out together and doing life. Lately I have been asked to speak at a ton of evening events and I am honored, but it has been freeing to be able to say Sorry I can't. I need to be home with my wife and kids. After this season of my life, I may be able to do more, but right now I cannot.
As you think about risk in your faith, could you truly follow God if He asked you to do something, or are you too busy doing so much you would have to tell Him to wait while you closed everything out. Less is more, as I spend more time with my teenagers I'm able to help and be in their world. As I say no to more, I am able to say yes to the family times. I really challenge you to think about what you would do if God asked you to do something sacrificial today, could you do it financially, spiritually? Tough words to think on.
Philip Thurman
Monday, September 22, 2008
Sacred Cows Make Great Burgers as well
Your going, where in the world is this guy going. Well, we have been in a series called "Unwrapped" which identifies some of our core beliefs as a church. This past week we looked at the trait "Sacrifice." Not something our culture really challenges us to do. The truth be known, if we got serious about sacrifice, our spending and wasteful lifestyle would change, and marketers would have nothing to do. I don't have anything against marketers, but they convince us to buy things that we don't even need. We then take that stuff we bought and take it to storage and keep it for later, because we may need it. What would happen if we decided we were going to take the time and money we spent on that junk and invest it or sacrifice it for God.
We'll spend money and time yelling and screaming at ball games, going to movies, concerts and make huge sacrifices, which will NOT last. But instead, we could sacrifice and use our time and money to influence a culture, a people and see life change take place. That's something that will impact forever....that's a long time. What are you willing to risk or give up that you like or enjoy to potentially influence someone?
Philip Thurman
Thursday, September 18, 2008
You Want Me To Do What?
Coach ordered us to get a partner about our height and weight and then to meet him at the bottom of the hill. Now this means nothing to some of you. The hill was a small incline, but it was steep. He said, you will carry your partner on your back up and down this hill ten times, switch and ride for ten times and repeat that cycle five times. "You want us to do what?" Have you lost your mind, there's NO way! He blew the whistle and off we had to go. It was ridiculous....we did it, no clue how, but I also remember the pain right after, but the season after that moment seemed really easy.
This morning in our reading as a church we were asked to read Matthew 5:38-48. WOW! These are really difficult things we are called to do. As I was reading them this morning, I went back to that day, "You want me to do what?" Love my enemy, pray for those who persecute me, don't just love those that love you, but love those who don't love you....then He closes out "But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect." Why such tall orders? We cannot ever be perfect can we? Why does God give us such impossible task? Would love to hear from you today on your thoughts.
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Hell no, not the Church!
About four months ago a hospital in town had a patient that was from Bangladesh (where I grew up) who spoke not ONE word of English. She came in with all types of problems, but they could never fully understand what was going on. They searched a number of places and made calls to inquire if there was any one who might could help interpret. After days of searching they found someone at a local university who could help. When asked if they ever considered calling the church to see if there were missionaries, or common folks who spoke the language, his response was, "hell no, not the church. They don't want to serve anybody but there own." WOW! What a slam to the body of Christ.
In one scripture verse Jesus says, they will know we are His disciples by the love that we have for one another. When did the church loose it's service to the world, community? Why have we become so consumed with our own, or trying to convert the non Christian. What would happen if we simply served out of a grateful heart? Service is on of the greatest ways to grow our faith and belief in God. We get challenged and pushed. It is in those moments that we begin to take on the right focus or attitude. I believe the world would be blown away and ask us why we are serving. It would be in that moment we would be able to share the hope of heaven and they could confidently say, "HELL NO, heaven YES!"
Philip Thurman
Sunday, September 14, 2008
UnWrapped
This week you heard about just one servant that said, God I don't have much, but what I have I give to you. I continued the interview to talk about serving, I wanted you to be able to hear the rest of it. Thanks to everyone who serves. You are my heroes.
PLEASE PAUSE THE MUSIC SO YOU CAN HEAR THE BLOG INTERVIEW.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Bottom Rungs
This past week I was reading a blog of a church that does NOT have any members. There are those who have Christ and those who are pursuing Christ. Once you accept Christ you become a part of the Family of God. Once you do that, hopefully you will give, serve and do your part for the local church. I love thinking through all the things and thinking about all the rungs we take off the ladder for those outside of a relationship with Christ. Why do we do that? Why do we make it so tough to know and follow Christ? Think about your relationships with the world. What do you do or say that potentially keeps someone from accepting this relationship? Busy schedules, sports activities, job, chores! Do these things keep me from helping someone know Christ? Challenging insights on this Wednesday. Read Acts 15 again. Rock your socks off!
Philip Thurman
Monday, September 8, 2008
What Could You Do?
Benched from Brandon McCormick on Vimeo.
Anyone Reading This?
If I get NO replies, I'll probably stop for now.
More later, maybe!
Philip Thurman
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
What About The Back Door
We like to think that they are not coming because we're NOT friendly, or the music is not clicking, or the speaker is not bringing it, or our coffee is NOT Fusions, or the kids program stinks. Well, I think all of those things for us are working well. Could they be improved, well sure they can. But does that stuff matter? Sure it does, but think about it. People can go to ITunes and down load the best music available. They can down load for FREE the greatest communicators in the world.....yes world. They can go to Fusions and get the best coffee in town. What would help us close the back door. I'm convinced it is one thing and one thing only.
It is the very thing everyone wants, but is NOT willing to pursue. It is a struggle to make time for it, it cost a ton in emotional energy and we have so little margin in our life. It could make us healthy, but we will choose to be unhealthy as opposed to live in this. This one thing is RELATIONSHIPS. I am convinced that the greatest healer, connector, fullier in Life is the relationship with have with God. I also believe the human relationships are the second greatest. If we could have genuine relationships with people in small groups we would see the back door closing. How do we do this with a culture that is moving so fast or doesn't see the need........? Maybe another blog for another day.
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Life Sucks! You gotta read!
But as I think about unfair, I was reading about it this morning. In Acts 16 these two guys Paul and Silas are going from place to place and there is this annoying lady that follows them and saying out loud, these guys on on God's team. They are here making noise.....(my paraphrase) So Paul turns and cast the evil spirit out of her. Her owner is now p oed! His income (she was a fortune teller) is now shot. So what do they do, throw Paul and Silas in jail after they get a beating. NOW THAT IS NOT FAIR! No trial, no attorneys nothing. It's one thing to be thrown in prison for a crime you did, but to be thrown in cause you cast an evil spirit out of someone. How would you like that, stand before the jury and say guilty or NOT Guilty. uh sir or ma'am, I am guilty. What is your crime? Uh casting out an evil spirit.....WHAT? Is that not hilarious! I think so....the Bible is awesome. The rest of the story is incredible, check it out!
Philip Thurman
Sunday, August 31, 2008
My Prayer
Well, we're all bracing for what Hurricane Gustav will decide to do. Right now things are projecting just west of New Orleans. Our local shelters are starting to fill up with people moving north. It is times like this that we many times get to experience the goodness of mankind. I hope we will show kindness to many who may be displayed over the next few days and weeks.
Those of us who are at home in the safety and comfort of our own homes should find time to serve and encourage those who are away from their safe place. Find time to serve, encourage and love on someone who may need it this week. Don't listen to the twist that our enemy will try and whisper in to your ears such as "you can't do that, you don't have anything, don't smile, your inconvenienced as well...etc etc." Take some time this week to bless others who are being displaced.
May they see Jesus in your kind actions. This is my prayer for all of us these next few weeks.
Philip Thurman
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
No Food or Drink For Three Days
What am I talking about? Two days ago I was reading in Acts 9:9. The story is the conversion of Saul. He is traveling down a road and is blinded by a light and is told to go to a city and someone will help him there. So he goes and for three days he sees nothing, eats and rinks nothing. What is that about. I wonder if that was his desire, or God's desire. I wonder if he was so in awe of God that he lost track of time or that all he could do was think about his life that he couldn't eat. I don't have a clue, but it caused me to pause and think....how'd he do that? I believe it was God sustaining him completely.
I'd love to get to that point that I did not have to worry about eating and drinking, but that I would fully rely upon God to be my provision. I want that type of faith.
Philip Thurman
Monday, August 25, 2008
Olympic Fever
The real stud to me is NOT the decathlon dude, although he is a stud. My man has to be the marathon dude. 26.2 miles wide open and the guy doesn't even act like he's winded. My heart was breathing harder for him than his was. What's that all about? Then last night I caught myself NOT wanting to miss a single moment of the closing ceremonies. WOW! Drummers hanging upside down and still playing, guys running up the side of a metal wall...did you see that? It was spectacular. China did a great job, but the last time I checked, their still under Communist leadership. WHAT?!
I guess the greatest truth was the closing comments by Bob Costas, btw, did he die his hair? Something looked different. Anyway, he said something to the effective of, "isn't it amazing how these two weeks the WORLD comes together as one. All differences are laid aside for the competition and recognition of an athlete." We are able for two weeks to put aside all that separates us and come together as one world to celebrate all that is good through Sports. WOW! Sports can unify the world. Stop and let that soak in. What would happen if people understood the Gospel and all it could do for them? How could that power change the world?
Today, let God speak through your life. The Olympics are over for four more years (At least the summer Olympics) but your story can just begin.
Philip Thurman
Friday, August 22, 2008
Project 1:8 is Rolling
P1:8 Madison served a few weeks back an incredible meal to the Madison Fire Department. They were blown away. Then a few weeks back when school started they were out by at the school handed out "Twisted" h20 to folks. It was incredible. We also had four folks helping with the parking and traffic flow.
P1:8 Canton is rockin! They had a school supply drive that ended up incredibly well. Last night a number of folks were at the Canton School for open house. Largest crowd they have had there in a long time. The team served food and did door prizes. Incredible job with Trinity Church.
P1:8 Homestead is making some contacts and working on future plans. Should have some ideas and thoughts very soon. Michelle is fired up about the direction of this team.
Last but NOT least P1:8 Haiti. Jim, Tracey and Kelly got back a week or so ago and are ready to go again. The stories of their trips have been amazing. Can't wait to see when and what happens there. Keep making a difference!
Finally, this weekend has a chance to be huge. Get there early. We have about 50-80 college athletes that are going to be in worship along with the usual big crowd. It's going to be an awesome day. Can't wait to hang out with you all
Philip Thurman
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Greatest Volunteers Around
Then at 9 I look up and our Children's team is throwing a party for their volunteers. Volunteer leaders throwing a party for their volunteers. How incredible is that? Then about 9:15 a room full of smiling and happy volunteers were there receiving thanks, food and then a bag that on the outside had Godiva Chocolate. That some serious stuff:) Then walked through the preschool and Nursery area and saw two guys working with a room full of four year old boys! They were having a blast.
Walked to the front of the school and the greeters were smiling and talking to everyone coming in the door. The building was smelling like coffee. I don't even like coffee, but it was smelling awesome. There was food on the back table that looked delicious. The sound was working awesome and the new video cable worked without a glitche.
MAN I LOVE THIS PLACE! If I wasn't the Pastor, I'd still go to this church. Then tear down.....flew by. Unbelievable is all I know to say. Thanks to everyone who serves and gives, but also Invest and Invite. I love you all!
Philip Thurman
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Sunday's Scribbles
Our Project 1:8 (Madison Team) handed out 500 or so bottles of water at Madison Station on parent preview night. Also Tommy, Van and Paul helped park some 2000 plus vehicles. Great job everyone.
Twisted started today with a bang, or so I felt. Open with the simple truth that we have an enemy that comes to steal, kill and destroy us, but God desires to give us a great life. Next week we will be looking at the twist satan puts on marriage and relationships. Hope you will connect over the next few weeks. Then we will begin focusing and celebrating our five year existence. WOW! God has allowed us to be around that long and we hope to see a ton more years if God so wishes.
Thanks to many of you who continue to "invest and invite." Today, one family introduced me to two guest families that they had invited and they showed up and seemed to have a blast. I love hanging with these types of folks who love what LifeBridge is all about. They take the risk and their friends respond. Man, keep it up.
Jim, Tracey and Kelly get back from Haiti this week. Excited to hear what LifeBridge can do in Haiti. Wow! Tons going on.
Have a great week.
Philip Thurman
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Eight...yes Count it Out. EIGHT!
Thanks to everyone who worked to make it awesome. Davis, thanks for your hard work to make this weekend happen.
Friday, August 1, 2008
Friday's Five
1) Can you believe the kids go back to school next week. It is both good and bad. This means that we go back to full set up and tear down mode. It also means that life gets back to some sense of normal, whatever Normal is.
2) Jim, Tracey and Kelly leave SUnday for a preview trip to Haiti. They will come back all jazzed about our P1:8 opportunities in Haiti. By the way, our teams are starting to get busy with awesome chances for you to get connected and serving. Be at church Sunday to see what else is happening.
3) I've missed LifeBridge. Ready to get back in the groove. You guys are a special group of folks. I do not like missing my time with you all. You are really encouraging and awesome inviters. We have had an incredible summer. If the fall is anything like the summer, look out. We may be needing to find more chairs. Great problem to have, many people would love to be where we are. Let's keep pushing and doing this for God's fame.
4) I'm ready to get back and hang out with the staff team. I am able to serve alongside the greatest leaders I have ever been around. If you don't know them, I challenge you to invite them to lunch after church and get to know them. Some of the most talented folks around. (Davis Jones, John Chappelear, Johnny Ervin, Greg Miller, Scott Little, and then we have a million (okay a brief exaggeration) volunteers. You all are the best.
5) Baptism is this Sunday. This is the coolest service. We get to hear our young folks talk about their camp experience and then follow Christ in Baptism. Proud of you guys.....keep challenging us old folks to follow Christ.
See you Sunday
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
What's Its Purpose?
Have you ever wondered what the purpose of jelly fish are? I mean really, what good do they serve? They are slow and almost stupid acting. They wrap on to you and sting the tar out of you. What good do they serve? NOTHING that I can see. Then think about wasp, what do they do besides build nest in places that are so random and sting people. Huge rats, what do they do except hang out in nasty places. What about gnats, weird spelling, but what do they do? I'm sure someone has answers for these, but I see no purpose for them especially since I am on vacation and all of these things seem to be where I am.
Throughout history religious leaders have thanked God that they were NOT born a gentile, not born a woman and on and on. Today, why don't you thank God that you are NOT one of the above things, but the Bible says that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. It also says that you were made in the image of God. WOW! Those are cool words, words that God has used to encourage me this week while I am on vacation.
Philip Thurman
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Why?
Another reason for taking time off was to be able to go to Panama City with our youth. Man, it is so important to get to hang out with the next generation. They are so fired up about their relationship with God. Honestly, in that group may be the next Pastor of LifeBridge, maybe the next President, Governor of the State of Mississippi. It is always an encouragement to get to hang out with them. It also allows me to get to spend some time with the kids and get to know them as well. Wow, we have some amazing young people. Some who have gone through great hardships, and some currently going through some hardships, yet through it all they are holding their heads up and following Christ.
It also allows me to focus some energies on leadership development. I feel strongly about being a strong leader and developing a team that desires to lead as well. We have a great team and I don't want to slow them down or get in their way. So it is a time for me to recharge and re-focus for the fall. I also usually get away with my family on vacation. So this is the last blog for a week. Talk to you when we get back.
Philip Thurman
Thursday's Ten
1) Working with the P1:8 teams about future projects for our church. This group is incredible. Let me introduce the team: Rhonda Powell is giving leadership to the Madison team, Canton - Jennifer Taylor, Homestead - Michelle Smith, Haiti - Christina Brossette. The overall leader is Jim Fries. WOW!
2) Hanging with our youth after Big Stuf camp. We had at least three kids say they wanted to accept Christ forgiveness. There wer also a ton of other kids who re-dedicated their lives to Christ. Go God!
3) Getting ready for our baptism Sunday. Man, this is going to be an awesome day. Put down August 3rd on your schedule to be present to hear our youth as they lead us in worship.
4) Preparing the teaching series starting August 10th called "Twisted." Man, it is going to be awesome. Take time to think about who you could invite to come to this great series. Truths that God has given us that have been twisted by the evil one.
5) Looking forward to a great fall. My oldest son is NOT playing select soccer. We will still have Saturday games, but they will all be home. Yes, we get time back together as a family.
6) My wife was talking with our pediatrician yesterday and learned something cool. Research has shown that families that eat together for supper have more children that turn out to be National Merit Scholars....WOW! We try and eat at least five or six nights together.
7) Watching a church grow. Man, this is amazing. This summer is going to be the largest season ever in the life of LifeBridge. Did you hear me, we're in the middle of summer! Wow, thanks for being such a great investor and inviter. Keep it up
8) Our building and finance team are cranking up talks with ministry leaders and teams. In the next few months we will start bringing you all some incredible information.
9) Love leading this awesome team. Get to know our staff team Greg Miller, John Chappelear, Davis Jones, Scott Little and Johnny Ervin. I also lead our Advisory Team made up of Greg Miller, Mike Traylor, Brad Webb, T.J. Williams and Wayne Williams. Finally we have Amanda Dodds, Glenn and Sherri Trammell, Melanie Osborn and Lori Thurman are giving leadership to our children's teams. Davis Jones leads our youth team.....WOW! Incredible leaders.
10) Getting ready for a much needed time of vacation. Headed to Perdido Key's, FL starting Saturday. Sorry, but I won't have email and I won't answer my cell phone. Love you all and see you in a week.
Philip Thurman
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Ever have one of "those" kinds of days....week?
Well this has been one of "those" weeks. When I say that, I hope your mind doesn't go to the negative, cause it hasn't been that at all. It has been a week that I have seen God clearly working in people's lives. Many of you attended baby Grayson's funeral yesterday and heard Joey share his thoughts. WOW! It was a God moment that will always be remembered on the hard drive of my mind. Gretchen's letter was so sweet. It was awesome to see the impact and testimony of this family in the loss of a special child.
We also found out this week that a dear friend from Hattiesburg gave up the fight of cancer and went to be with God. Jason Weathers was an incredible man. He lived his life well. Pray for Stephanie and their three kids. As you pray, pray also for his in laws, the Shows. May they Know God comfort and peace.
Tuesday we leave for youth Camp to Panama City. Please pray for the kids and chaperone's. It will be a powerful week. I hope God allows you to experience one of "those" kind of weeks.
Philip thurman
Sunday, July 6, 2008
El Potrillo!
We may have the room set up in a unique fashion to grab your attention; we may change things up periodically so that it does not become predictable. A great example of this that you may have noticed is we are NOT doing name tags in the summer. We want it to feel loose and relaxed. In the fall we may start them again or may not. You will also notice that we have not been putting the handout cards in the chairs. People have gotten so used to them that they don't even pick them up anymore to take and hand out.
Another unique thing we're starting relates to food. Several weeks ago Greg and I were eating at El Potrillo Mexican Restaurant (in Madison, near Wal-Mart). The owner, Jon, came by our table and struck up a conversation. Somewhere as we talked he brought up the idea of El Potrillo giving back to LifeBridge a percentage of the food total from LifeBridge people who eat there. He wondered about some way to let them know who was from LifeBridge, and we suggested our handout cards and he agreed that would be a great way to know who was from LifeBridge.
WOW! That's a sweet deal. So go out and support LifeBridge by eating some great Mexican food at El Potrillo.
Philip Thurman
Monday, June 30, 2008
Monday's Mentions
In the Message version there is a section entitled "Four Intolerables." He list four things that shake the foundation. WOW!
1) when the janitor becomes the boss
2) when a FOOL gets rich
3) when a whore is voted "woman of the year"
4) when a "girlfriend" replaces a faithful wife.
Wow, these are so true. Can you see the truth and power in these words? The he move on and talks about four small wonders.
1) ants - frail as they are, get plenty of food in for the winter
2) marmots - (what the heck is this?) (any bushy-tailed, stocky roden) vulnerable as they are, manage to arrange for rock solid homes
3) locusts - leaderless insects, yet they strip the field like an army regiment
4) lizards - easy enough to catch, but they sneak past vigilant palace guards.
I could go on and on, but see the wisdom of these words. Rock on!
Philip Thurman
Sunday, June 22, 2008
So Little Can Make So Much of A Difference
In Canton, a simple gift of a basketball goal or pencils and school bags can make kids smile. In Haiti $30.00 a month can provide for one child in the orphanage. WOW! That is all it takes. We spend that much on one meal. What if we decided NOT to eat once a month out and use that to impact one kid. Could you imagine the impact that one gift could make on that one child. Next Sunday we will begin to put the pieces of the puzzle together. Amazing to watch and see all the people that are stepping up to serve on the P1:8 team.
Keep being the church that makes a difference.
Philip Thurman
Monday, June 16, 2008
Project 1:8
This week we looked at the passage in Acts 1:8 where the challenge was placed before the new church that when they received Christ forgiveness they would have power and they were to go an be His witnesses to Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria and to the ends of the earth. At LifeBridge as we have pondered that passage we have asked the question, what is our Judea, Samaria and the ends of the earth. We know our Jerusalem is Madison and we feel we have been working well in it. We've expanded our sphere of influence now to Canton and specifically to Trinity Church. They are a new start up church in the Canton area that has a real heart for the city and it's people, specifically the young. They also have an incredible desire to influence the next generation. So they are strategically involved with a school where they are making a huge difference.
There are a million incredible ministries in Canton, why not get involved with all of them. First we are too small to spread ourselves to too many places. We feel a real desire to stay focused on one area and sink everything we have into it. This laser like focus will help us stay on task in our Judea.
This next Sunday we have two guest who will be with us from outside the state of Mississippi and even from outside this country. I hope you will be with us to hear about Samaria and the Uttermost parts of the earth.
Philip Thurman
Monday, June 2, 2008
New Life!
This next week we start a new journey on SUnday morning for four weeks. We have never done a series like what we are about to do. The series title is called P1:8. All I can say is do NOT miss it. We are going to have some special guest the first three weeks and then the final week is going to be an amazing time of challenge for us all. I promise you, do NOT miss this time. We have some friends coming from outside of Mississippi to be with us on week three of this journey. It is going to rock. If you want to be involved with something bigger than yourself, this is it.
We are also in the throws of discussing in our building teams the needs we have for a new facility. Wow! We're actually starting to work through what this first building is going to look like. Exciting times around LifeBridge. We see awesome volunteers running many facets of life and the staff are working hard as well. Now is a great time to invite a friend, family member, neighbor or co-worker to church with you.
Philip Thurman
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
First?!
This past weekend I took my 14 year old son for his first experience to get behind the steering wheel of a vehicle. The whole time from lunch until 3:30 p.m. he was acting like a nut case. I have never seen him so spastic and crazy acting. So we loaded up in my five manual 2002 Nissan Xterra and headed off to the wild blue yonder. Can't tell you where, cause some of my cop buddies may sit out and try to nail me. Got to our location and man he was pumped.
We talked about the rules, he nodded, we talked about how to work a five speed, he nodded with a look of uncertainty. We talked about speed thrills but kills, yada yada is what I felt like he wanted to say. So we made the switch. He adjusted everything, my heart is pounding and so is his. He gets in and revs the engine up and doesn't let the clutch off. Finally he figures it out and gets to going. Two hands on the wheel and off we go, his face just glowing. Man, you couldn't pay me anything for that moment. I would not have missed that for anything. A few weeks later I let him drive moms 2002 minivan (automatic) Man, he did well. He loved it. I asked him why and he said.....it doesn't require much work. I understand what he means, but here is my problem. We look at everything in life that way. We always want the easy way out....Why is that? Marriage, careers etc....we don't want to work at it. Let's do things as if it were our first time, let's put that type of energy into it. Could you imagine what life would be like if we all took that FIRST LOOK!
Philip Thurman
Monday, May 26, 2008
Random Holiday Thoughts
Getting ready for a busy week. We get to baptize three folks this next weekend. Man, it is an honor to be able to see life change taking place in people's lives. I hope you will continue to invest and invite. Yesterday, I had a family come up to me and share that they had invited their neighbors to come to church, and guess what, they all came. Family of four showed up. WOW!
Saturday we had an incredible work day in Canton. We cleaned some nasty abandoned apartments. You have never seen some of the stuff or smelled some of the stuff we smelled. Thanks Kevin and Caresty, Jennifer, Chris, Johnny, Jim, Chris, John and Rhonda, Brian, and Rachel. We probably had the biggest team present and we rocked. We cleaned up 8 apartments. I really appreciate everyone of you for what you did.
Pray for Greg, Nancy and the family. They are on a well deserved Alaska trip and cruise. They have not done a vacation like this. I'm really grateful for this family. They are incredible servants. They give and give behind the scenes. I hope they have a great time as a family. We love you guys, hurry back. Davis and Kathy have moved into their new house in Red Oak...WOW it is really nice. Great to have you guys in the Madison County Tax paying base:) John, Dawn and family are headed to North Carolina. Pray for a great trip and some R and R for them. Davis, Kathy, Johnny, Sylvia, Scott, Neece, Philip and Lori are left to hold the fort down. Do we get to go somewhere next week? :)
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Generational Relationships
Just this past weekend I got involved with twitter.com. It is a service where one goes and constantly updates what they are doing. I can follow some people I like or am curious about. They to in turn can follow me. Is this a way to build relationships? Then, I came across seesmic.com. It is a video community. Basically you can build relationships with people anywhere. It is basically video blogging. Some of the discussions are fascinating. My question to you all is, is this the new way of relating? Are we coming to the point where the face to face interact and touch are not going to be necessary. How then do we get a sense of belonging or becoming. When I sit down face to face with someone, I am able to see a lot. I hear your voice and watch your verbal as well as non verbal reactions. It tells me a ton about you. When I twitter or seesmic, how do you know that I am NOT faking it or am something that I am not.
I'm not knocking any of those avenues. I personally love the people of the world. But I also think there is tremendous value in developing relationships face to face. Sorry for the rambles. I'd be curious to know your thoughts....email me at philip@mylifebridge.com
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Do You Twitter?
I don't know where this is going, but you control how much you want to say and how often. It seems to be catching wind. So check it out and feel free to follow my day.
Philip Thurman
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Incredible Heroes
The nursery is starting to take off as well. We had to come to the point to decide whether or not we would get serious about taking care of little ones. Man, we are stoked. We have two paid workers and 8 volunteers ready to serve on that team. This week we kicked off with two volunteers who rocked. Thanks Kathy and Marsha for stepping up. The final area is First Look (Preschool). It is starting to come together as well. We're starting to see families coming and having their kids connect. Everyone of you who serve in these areas are my hero. Thanks for standing in the gap and helping us carry the torch. We truly have the best volunteers around.
Partner's, remember we have a meeting next Sunday after church to discuss what is going on with our building and land process. We have some awesome days ahead. We are seeing God use you all in powerful ways. Keep investing and inviting.
Philip Thurman
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Company Picnic
The team leaders are the phenominal Jim and Tracey Fries, with a huge hand from Debbie and Keith Martin. The rest of the team consist of Jennifer Taylor and her dad Dale Carpenter (who came from Mobile, AL) to cook burgers and dogs. Also we had Kevin and Caresty Carpenter, Greg Walters, Russell Atkinson, Johnny Gilmore, Jay Gujrati, Jimmie and Karen Westby Gibson, Woody Osborn, Wayne and Kim Williams, Mike Traylor and Sean Dodds.
Please forgive me if I left you out, but it was NOT intentional. We had a number of folks who really seemed to connect and have a blast. I heard a ton of rumblings about the judging of the booths and that the Canton group rigged it that way....No comments from me, just passing along what I heard:) They had a great booth. There were a ton of great door prizes given out as well. If you missed it, you missed a great time. Hope to see you the next time we come together.
Two more weeks of the Office series. I hope you all will continue to Invest and Invite.
Philip Thurman
Monday, April 21, 2008
Soccer vs Church
My daughters U-12 soccer team (Jaw Crushers) made it through to the Western District Playoffs.....We just barely made it in, but we got the chance of a lifetime. I am the head coach and it so happens that my assistant did not have his coaching license. So I had to coach on Sunday morning which meant I missed LifeBridge. I hate missing church for something like soccer. I hate it. I think it sends the wrong message to our kids. But did I do anything about it? NOT A SINGLE THING. I could have had a team devotional before the game with the parents and players, heck we could have done a service at the soccer complex. There were THOUSANDS of kids from Jackson, Clinton, Madison, Greenville, and Greenwood. It could have been a huge outreach experience.
I totally wasted an awesome opportunity. I'm really mad at myself. It never crossed my mind until this morning. I pray you and I will NOT miss too many moments to be a major impact for Christ. Sorry I missed you guys, but I am upset that I missed a huge chance to encourage thousands of folks. How many times a day do we miss that what if moment.
Philip Thurman
Monday, April 14, 2008
Company Picnic
The next two weeks will also have some pretty funny video's I have been told. So don't miss getting to see them. Also yesterday, we gave away a nice chair with a foot rest to Ryan Weaver. Go bro! You have to be present to continue to win door prizes.
We do these fun events NOT for ourselves, but for the chance of being able to invite someone who may NOT come to LifeBridge. I hope you will take this opportunity to invite someone that you have been investing in. It will be unlike any church hangout they have been a part of. We will have food, fun and free childcare for kids two and under.
Make plans now to attend.
Philip Thurman
Monday, April 7, 2008
"Takin' Care of Business"
I often have people tell me that they feel like their job brings NO value to relationships, nor does it make any difference in the grand scheme of life. I hear people say things like, "I need to go into full-time ministry" to influence people. I don't quite know what that phrase means, but I think what is being said is, if I could work full time in the church I would be able to make a huge difference in my life as well as others.
See here's the deal. Regardless of what you do, God has placed right where He wants you. The people you have a chance of influencing as an athlete, attorney, doctor, grocery store clerk, teller, student, home maker etc. etc. is far greater than I will ever have as a Pastor. Here is why I say that with all honesty. My job is the greatest job with the WORST title. It does not matter how creative you get with titles, the response is still the same. Usually right off the bat the question comes to me, "well, what do you do for a living?" When I tell anyone what I do, guess what their response is......"Oh, great to meet you and best of luck!" Off they go. I may NOT ever discuss the Bible or preach to them, but they are gone. You on the other hand have a chance to build a relationship and as you do that, you can begin to influence and lead the discussions to spiritual matters. They will often times listen to you and continue the relationship. You are in a great place, right where God wants you to be. You have a greater chance to influence through what you do, than often times through being a paid professional MINISTER.
Ranting by Philip Thurman
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Sunny South Florida
Your asking why we are down here. For about three years I have been praying and burdened about the need for us to be missional at LifeBridge. It is easy to become inward focused. We have bought land and are in the planning and dreaming stages of a building and what all that entails. It is all about us and one thing we constantly say is that we are NOT just about us. We want to constantly stay focused on those who have NOT yet walked through the doors. So a way to keep our eyes focused on God is to serve outside of LifeBridge. We have established a great relationship with Trinity Church in Canton where we will partner alongside of them to influence that city for Christ. We also feel God leading us in a powerful way to work with Haitians in Homestead, Fl but also in Haiti. So we are down here meeting with Pastor Frank, Reggie and Alex about the possibilities.
Last night we shared stories of God's faithfulness and calling for all of us. Pastor Frank is an amazing guy. He has a real heart for his own people in Haiti. They have a mother church that has planted five churches. Some meet in a simple thatched hut and others meet in homes. They have schools in a few of the churches and they have established an orphanage. WOW! There is so much to be done. Today we talk through more details about the partnership.
Jim and I plan on putting on our thong bikini bathing suits and heading out to South Miami Beach with all the other freaks. Pictures to follow in a day or two:)
Philip Thurman
Friday, March 28, 2008
Termites?
As I thought about what I happened I began to think about my life. How often do termites get into my life? The termite of anger, oh no one sees it initially, but at some trigger moment it becomes exposed. Or the mask that everything is okay in my life, but slowly the termite's eat through the sheetrock and wham.....everything falls apart and I can't do anything to stop it. This morning in my reading time in Proverbs 13:6 (NLT) it says, "Godliness helps people all through life, while the evil are destroyed by their wickedness." The pest guys are going to shoot a chemical into my house called termidor. It is potent stuff and guaranteed to kill these bad boys. In the same way, pursuing God gives us life, life at it's very best.
Lastly, today a number of men are helping Trinity Church (partner church in Canton) move out of their old building into storage. I also heard that a number of them are planning on coming to LifeBridge this week. God's doing some awesome things. It may be a week or so before I post again. Jim and I are headed Tuesday to Homestead, Florida to meet with a Haitian church about possibly doing some mission work with them.
Peace
Philip Thurman
Sunday, March 23, 2008
What's The Big Deal?
In thinking about Easter, the Bible, Christianity it all points back to one thing.......A Relationship with God and with others. This morning God challenged us to think about three relationships and what we need to do. Let me recap quickly. I challenged us to think about one of these three and work on it for the next few weeks. 1) What relationship needs to be initiated? What about going out to eat, or inviting them over to your house. 2) What relationship needs to be nurtured? Date your wife, take your girlfriend on a fun date. Do things to make it grow. 3) What relationship needs to be restored? This is a difficult one. It requires us to forgive others even if we are the party that has been wronged....forgive! Don't live with that issue, don't take it to the grave with you. God desires for you to experience Life At It's Very Best.
We'll close out next week with HGH.....by the way, great job on tons of you freeing up parking for Easter Sunday. We had a great day and a great crowd. WOW! I heard a number of you talk about someone you had invited to church, great job. Keep investing and inviting.
Philip Thurman
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Growing Pains
Around LifeBridge we don't talk openly about numbers cause we know that the only people that get excited about that are the leaders who watch all that stuff. BUt do you know that every year we have had significant growth. You are investing and inviting and that is amazing. Over the last two weeks I have been able to walk around and see things that I do not normally get to see because of my teaching. This past weekend we had a big issue. I noticed that our front parking lot is full. So would some of you partners and regular attenders consider parking in the back to free up space in the front for our guest. Greeters, please help us direct some folks to the back.
This Sunday (Easter Sunday) we may also have a ton of guest. Please introduce yourself and show them why we are the friendliest church in town. Also, we may need you to give up your chair for someone new. Thanks in advance for doing that. See you Sunday. Let's keep experiencing Growing Pains.
Philip Thurman
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Sunday Evening Reflections
X-treme (grades 1-5) had there first meeting under the new leadership. Many know that John Mark and Sharon had their third precious baby. So I felt led to challenge some keys leaders to step up. Guess what? Three major leaders stepped up and said, we'll run X-treme, but you need to know we are going to recruit the fool out of adults. I said go for it. This morning at 9:00 a.m. the team met and there was 12 volunteers ready to go. Yes 12! We've never had that many ready and willing to serve. They launched the look today and it rocked. Today Glenn and Sherry, Amanda, Angela, and Mike and Diana brought it. You guys are my heroes. Thanks for impacting kids in a powerful way.
The preschool sign in table worked like clock work today as well. Man, I am pumped about all the incredible leaders God is bringing our way. I'm learning a ton by watching the seasoned veterans who know how to get it done and get it done with volunteers. Keep pushing and challenging us.
Remember Easter is three weeks away, so start thinking about who you want to invite to LifeBridge. Have a great week.
Philip Thurman
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Stories That Excite Me
Sharon has done an amazing job in our Xtreme ministry (Grades 1-5). She and John Mark are preparing for their third baby to come into the world. At the end of February she will take some time off, but God has raised up a number of incredible leaders. Glenn and Sherry are going to step up and lead out in this ministry team, with Amanda stepping way out of her comfort zone as well. Thanks guys, your faith and belief in this God really encourages me.
Last but not least, I heard about a guy who a year ago would have never been seen leading a life group. In fact, he says what all of us say. "I don't know the Bible well enough, what if someone ask me a hard question......etc etc" Well, he stepped out and is now having a ball leading people in his Small Group. God is pushing so many folks out of their comfort zones. My prayer from the beginning of this series was that God would do some gigantic things in people's lives. We'll continue to wait and see all that God will do. Keep up your great work and stepping out of your comfort zone.
Philip Thurman
Monday, February 4, 2008
unChristian
Philip Thurman
Sunday, February 3, 2008
We just finished a powerful series on "How To Be Rich." Our culture talks a ton about getting rich, but tells us nothing about how to be rich. How do we live once we are rich. We chiseled away many lies that marketers and retailers tell us about money and life. If you have not listened to the entire series, I cannot think of a better one you should burn and give away to friends.
I'm really excited about the next series "Shift Happens!" We'll be looking at three exapmles of men and women who made major shifts in their lives to obey God. God may call some of us during this series to make Shifts. Would you be willing to do something drastic if God asked you to? If God asked you to down size and give to the poor, would you do it? If God asked you to leave your massive salary to serve or start some new opportunity, would you do it? If God ask you to make some relationships right that are currently estranged, could you do it?
I hope these next four weeks, we will be willing to listen to God and then do what He ask us to do. See you Sunday
Philip Thurman
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Been To The Land Lately?
Philip Thurman